In all areas of your life—life, work, relationships, money, business, etc., ditch your plan B.
Nothing great comes from having a fall-back plan. Consider marriage. Anyone getting married knows that divorce is possible if she gets in and wants out. But would you ever suggest to your bestie that she marry someone with that in mind? No…you probably wouldn’t, because love, like life, needs—and deserves—an all-in sort of commitment.
So, give it a try. Fully commit to where and who you are, to the people and things in your life. And see what magic shows up in the knowing that comes with time, and the intimacy that grows out of the knowing.
And please let us know what you find.